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Karin's avatar

Dear Valentina, this was a feast for my soul. My great-grandfather was technically born in Italy, although a Slovenian (the region your grandfathers brother went missing) in the 1920s. He was active in the war, joining the communist partigani (Yugoslav, not Italian), captured and imprisoned in Gonars from which he fled (a story turned legend in our family). My great-grandmother on the other hand was born in what is now a small town on the border with Austria. She has also, as a young girl barely in her teens, helped the partisans, hiding and delivering the letters.

Italian food has a special place in my heart. The Italian tradition of using cheese and eggs in everything is the only thing keeping me from turning vegan, although I am vegetarian now for almost half of my life. I think we ate extra Italian, even by Slovenian standards, because of my great-grandfather, a man who, according to my family, was of great authority, although the war years plagued him until his (what I would call surprisingly) calm death in his sleep in the nineties.

It is fascinating how much emotions, and with that power, the food holds. And when I think of it, I always remember the tradition of breaking bread with someone, usually the guest. What a powerful gesture it used to be before the abundance we now have (at least in the global west).

I could go on so many topics you opened in this essay, but I would just like to thank you, for sharing the history of your family. There is still so much hate for the reality like joining the fascist party only to survive or to remain unseen. People unfortunately forgot about the nuances of survival in the wartime.

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Sally Burke's avatar

Thank you for sharing this story about your family.

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